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From: kilikini on 7 Aug 2008 17:19 Mary wrote: > "kilikini" <kilikini1(a)NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote in message > news:g7ffgf$elu$1(a)news.datemas.de... >> MsMonarchdancer(a)gmail.com wrote: >>> On Mon, 4 Aug 2008 14:42:21 -0500, "kilikini" >>> <kilikini1(a)NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote: >>> >>>>> Pretty crazy. The husband has been unemployed, for the most part, >>>>> and we're hanging on by a thread. On a funny note, my husband now >>>>> has anxiety, too. LOL. >>> >>> Dear Kili, >>> >>> I've been through the unemployed thing quite a few times with my >>> husband.... so I know what you are going through. Sorry about your >>> husband's anxiety. Is he more empathetic now that he suffers too? >>> (((((Kili))))) >>> >>> Jackie >> >> He's definitely more empathetic, Jackie. We announce to each other >> before we enter a room the other is in in order not to startle and >> start the heart pounding shaking, we unplug the phone half the time, >> and we really just try to talk quietly and keep the peace. Still, >> we both tend to wake up with it. >> >> The part I'm worried about is that now he's getting the nausea, too, >> and he's been throwing up quite a bit. It *is* really hot out and >> if he finds any work at all, he doesn't need to be throwing up. And >> now, again, if he does find a day of work somewhere, he gets anxious >> about going *because* of his anxiety - if that makes any sense. He >> does the "what if's". What if I fall off the roof because I'm >> shaky? What if I slip off the ladder? What if I have diarrhea? >> What if I throw up on the job? >> >> He's doing everything that we all do. The Stinkin' Thinkin'. > > Poor guy. I really feel sorry for him. I hope he manages to get these > thoughts and anxieties under control. Its bad enough trying to find a > job without these other problems thrown in. > > Mary I know! Thanks, Mary. I'm hoping everything will get better for us soon. kili -- ========== Please DELETE this text block when replying! ========== Contact the moderators at: asapm-board(a)stump.algebra.com The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm ========= This notice is added to each approved article ==========
From: Mary on 7 Aug 2008 19:29 "kilikini" <kilikini1(a)NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote in message news:g7fork$v5o$1(a)news.datemas.de... > Mary wrote: > > "kilikini" <kilikini1(a)NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote in message > > news:g7ffgf$elu$1(a)news.datemas.de... > >> MsMonarchdancer(a)gmail.com wrote: > >>> On Mon, 4 Aug 2008 14:42:21 -0500, "kilikini" > >>> <kilikini1(a)NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote: > >>> > >>>>> Pretty crazy. The husband has been unemployed, for the most part, > >>>>> and we're hanging on by a thread. On a funny note, my husband now > >>>>> has anxiety, too. LOL. > >>> > >>> Dear Kili, > >>> > >>> I've been through the unemployed thing quite a few times with my > >>> husband.... so I know what you are going through. Sorry about your > >>> husband's anxiety. Is he more empathetic now that he suffers too? > >>> (((((Kili))))) > >>> > >>> Jackie > >> > >> He's definitely more empathetic, Jackie. We announce to each other > >> before we enter a room the other is in in order not to startle and > >> start the heart pounding shaking, we unplug the phone half the time, > >> and we really just try to talk quietly and keep the peace. Still, > >> we both tend to wake up with it. > >> > >> The part I'm worried about is that now he's getting the nausea, too, > >> and he's been throwing up quite a bit. It *is* really hot out and > >> if he finds any work at all, he doesn't need to be throwing up. And > >> now, again, if he does find a day of work somewhere, he gets anxious > >> about going *because* of his anxiety - if that makes any sense. He > >> does the "what if's". What if I fall off the roof because I'm > >> shaky? What if I slip off the ladder? What if I have diarrhea? > >> What if I throw up on the job? > >> > >> He's doing everything that we all do. The Stinkin' Thinkin'. > > > > Poor guy. I really feel sorry for him. I hope he manages to get these > > thoughts and anxieties under control. Its bad enough trying to find a > > job without these other problems thrown in. > > > > Mary > > I know! Thanks, Mary. I'm hoping everything will get better for us soon. I sure hope so. You are both in my thoughts. :) Mary -- ========== Please DELETE this text block when replying! ========== Contact the moderators at: asapm-board(a)stump.algebra.com The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm ========= This notice is added to each approved article ==========
From: Mary on 7 Aug 2008 21:10 "kilikini" <kilikini1(a)NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote in message news:g7ffgf$elu$1(a)news.datemas.de... > MsMonarchdancer(a)gmail.com wrote: > > On Mon, 4 Aug 2008 14:42:21 -0500, "kilikini" > > <kilikini1(a)NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote: > > > >>> Pretty crazy. The husband has been unemployed, for the most part, > >>> and we're hanging on by a thread. On a funny note, my husband now > >>> has anxiety, too. LOL. > > > > Dear Kili, > > > > I've been through the unemployed thing quite a few times with my > > husband.... so I know what you are going through. Sorry about your > > husband's anxiety. Is he more empathetic now that he suffers too? > > (((((Kili))))) > > > > Jackie > > He's definitely more empathetic, Jackie. We announce to each other before > we enter a room the other is in in order not to startle and start the heart > pounding shaking, we unplug the phone half the time, and we really just try > to talk quietly and keep the peace. Still, we both tend to wake up with it. > > The part I'm worried about is that now he's getting the nausea, too, and > he's been throwing up quite a bit. It *is* really hot out and if he finds > any work at all, he doesn't need to be throwing up. And now, again, if he > does find a day of work somewhere, he gets anxious about going *because* of > his anxiety - if that makes any sense. He does the "what if's". What if I > fall off the roof because I'm shaky? What if I slip off the ladder? What > if I have diarrhea? What if I throw up on the job? > > He's doing everything that we all do. The Stinkin' Thinkin'. Kili, did your husband only develop anxiety attacks not too long ago.. I don't remember him having them before say 6 months ago. Mary -- ========== Please DELETE this text block when replying! ========== Contact the moderators at: asapm-board(a)stump.algebra.com The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm ========= This notice is added to each approved article ==========
From: kilikini on 8 Aug 2008 06:09 Mary wrote: > "kilikini" <kilikini1(a)NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote in message > news:g7ffgf$elu$1(a)news.datemas.de... >> MsMonarchdancer(a)gmail.com wrote: >>> On Mon, 4 Aug 2008 14:42:21 -0500, "kilikini" >>> <kilikini1(a)NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote: >>> >>>>> Pretty crazy. The husband has been unemployed, for the most part, >>>>> and we're hanging on by a thread. On a funny note, my husband now >>>>> has anxiety, too. LOL. >>> >>> Dear Kili, >>> >>> I've been through the unemployed thing quite a few times with my >>> husband.... so I know what you are going through. Sorry about your >>> husband's anxiety. Is he more empathetic now that he suffers too? >>> (((((Kili))))) >>> >>> Jackie >> >> He's definitely more empathetic, Jackie. We announce to each other >> before we enter a room the other is in in order not to startle and >> start the heart pounding shaking, we unplug the phone half the time, >> and we really just try to talk quietly and keep the peace. Still, >> we both tend to wake up with it. >> >> The part I'm worried about is that now he's getting the nausea, too, >> and he's been throwing up quite a bit. It *is* really hot out and >> if he finds any work at all, he doesn't need to be throwing up. And >> now, again, if he does find a day of work somewhere, he gets anxious >> about going *because* of his anxiety - if that makes any sense. He >> does the "what if's". What if I fall off the roof because I'm >> shaky? What if I slip off the ladder? What if I have diarrhea? >> What if I throw up on the job? >> >> He's doing everything that we all do. The Stinkin' Thinkin'. > > Kili, did your husband only develop anxiety attacks not too long > ago.. I don't remember him having them before say 6 months ago. > > Mary I'd say his started about 8 or 9 months or so ago. He became out of work and my health took a turn for the worse. Between worrying about me and the bills, he started the anxiety - for which he jokingly blames me. He thinks he "caught" it from me. LOL. kili -- ========== Please DELETE this text block when replying! ========== Contact the moderators at: asapm-board(a)stump.algebra.com The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm ========= This notice is added to each approved article ==========
From: Mary on 8 Aug 2008 13:54
"kilikini" <kilikini1(a)NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote in message news:g7h3h7$in7$1(a)news.datemas.de... > Mary wrote: > > "kilikini" <kilikini1(a)NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote in message > > news:g7ffgf$elu$1(a)news.datemas.de... > >> MsMonarchdancer(a)gmail.com wrote: > >>> On Mon, 4 Aug 2008 14:42:21 -0500, "kilikini" > >>> <kilikini1(a)NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote: > >>> > >>>>> Pretty crazy. The husband has been unemployed, for the most part, > >>>>> and we're hanging on by a thread. On a funny note, my husband now > >>>>> has anxiety, too. LOL. > >>> > >>> Dear Kili, > >>> > >>> I've been through the unemployed thing quite a few times with my > >>> husband.... so I know what you are going through. Sorry about your > >>> husband's anxiety. Is he more empathetic now that he suffers too? > >>> (((((Kili))))) > >>> > >>> Jackie > >> > >> He's definitely more empathetic, Jackie. We announce to each other > >> before we enter a room the other is in in order not to startle and > >> start the heart pounding shaking, we unplug the phone half the time, > >> and we really just try to talk quietly and keep the peace. Still, > >> we both tend to wake up with it. > >> > >> The part I'm worried about is that now he's getting the nausea, too, > >> and he's been throwing up quite a bit. It *is* really hot out and > >> if he finds any work at all, he doesn't need to be throwing up. And > >> now, again, if he does find a day of work somewhere, he gets anxious > >> about going *because* of his anxiety - if that makes any sense. He > >> does the "what if's". What if I fall off the roof because I'm > >> shaky? What if I slip off the ladder? What if I have diarrhea? > >> What if I throw up on the job? > >> > >> He's doing everything that we all do. The Stinkin' Thinkin'. > > > > Kili, did your husband only develop anxiety attacks not too long > > ago.. I don't remember him having them before say 6 months ago. > > > > Mary > > I'd say his started about 8 or 9 months or so ago. He became out of work > and my health took a turn for the worse. Between worrying about me and the > bills, he started the anxiety - for which he jokingly blames me. He thinks > he "caught" it from me. LOL. Well stress and worry can certainly cause anxiety, but I think your body has to have some pre-disposition, and you couldn't help your illness. I'm sure you would have been very glad not to have it. And being out of work would certainly cause a lot of stress as you need the money. Its unfortunate that he started to get anxiety attacks. He doesn't need that when he is trying to get jobs as you need the money and doesn't help your anxiety. Maybe both of you need to go to anxiety classes >:). I wish things would go better for both of you. My extra best wishes. Mary -- ========== Please DELETE this text block when replying! ========== Contact the moderators at: asapm-board(a)stump.algebra.com The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm ========= This notice is added to each approved article ========== |