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From: Liliana on 23 Jul 2008 21:05
On Jul 23, 9:34 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
> I remember this group being a thriving one, what happened?  I hope you all aren't suppressing your feelings because this group was a lifesaver when I needed them.  Love to you all.
>
> --
> Daisy

You are right Daisy,
There are so many names I remember but now rarely see posting. I have
found I check asg less often now, as the trolls, the inappropriate
advertisements, and sometime the controversy, when all we want is to
share our grief can be so discouraging. I too appreciate the many
responses when I poured my heart out, and felt less alone knowing
there were other mothers and fathers who had lost a child. All of
you, who held me up, so many times, I thank you.
From: Daisy on 23 Jul 2008 21:15
I am kind of going through a phase of depression, I'm so far from my sons
gravesite that I used to visit alot when I lived in Kansas that I find I
miss doing that. Work is so stressful lately and some nights I just look at
Busters picture hanging on the wall and cry myself to sleep, even after
eleven years it still happens. His sadiversary date was last month and no
one in my family even remembered and it hurt alot. I'm glad I've got you
people here but I wish there were more communication goin on in here like it
used to be. ((hugs))

--
Daisy
"Liliana" <xena.w(a)rogers.com> wrote in message
news:51e1fe70-5436-4e39-94b9-0ab98421c269(a)l42g2000hsc.googlegroups.com...
On Jul 23, 9:34 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
> I remember this group being a thriving one, what happened? I hope you all
> aren't suppressing your feelings because this group was a lifesaver when I
> needed them. Love to you all.
>
> --
> Daisy

You are right Daisy,
There are so many names I remember but now rarely see posting. I have
found I check asg less often now, as the trolls, the inappropriate
advertisements, and sometime the controversy, when all we want is to
share our grief can be so discouraging. I too appreciate the many
responses when I poured my heart out, and felt less alone knowing
there were other mothers and fathers who had lost a child. All of
you, who held me up, so many times, I thank you.


From: Jo in Ok on 24 Jul 2008 13:52
On Jul 23, 6:15 pm, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
> I am kind of going through a phase of depression, I'm so far from my sons
> gravesite that I used to visit alot when I lived in Kansas that I find I
> miss doing that.  Work is so stressful lately and some nights I just look at
> Busters picture hanging on the wall and cry myself to sleep, even after
> eleven years it still happens.  His sadiversary date was last month and no
> one in my family even remembered and it hurt alot.  I'm glad I've got you
> people here but I wish there were more communication goin on in here like it
> used to be.  ((hugs))
>
> --
> Daisy"Liliana" <xen...(a)rogers.com> wrote in message
>
> news:51e1fe70-5436-4e39-94b9-0ab98421c269(a)l42g2000hsc.googlegroups.com...
> On Jul 23, 9:34 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>
> > I remember this group being a thriving one, what happened? I hope you all
> > aren't suppressing your feelings because this group was a lifesaver when I
> > needed them. Love to you all.
>
> > --
> > Daisy
>
> You are right Daisy,
> There are so many names I remember but now rarely see posting.  I have
> found  I check asg less often now, as the trolls, the inappropriate
> advertisements, and sometime the controversy, when all we want is to
> share our grief can be so discouraging.  I too appreciate the many
> responses when I poured my heart out, and felt less alone knowing
> there were other mothers and fathers who had lost a child.  All of
> you, who held me up, so many times, I thank you.

(((((((((((Daisy and all here))))))))))))))))))))))))
I only occasionally check in or read... sorry to
hear your depression has come back...I don't think
mine will ever leave-it is like it is a part of me-have had
it so long(since childhood)
....of course I am also not taking meds for it
so yeah, will feel it more.....
I am loving being retired - life may have slowed down more
to a slower pace but still -don't have to answer to the
"man"!.....I also wanted to share that just a few minutes ago,
I was outside(not too long due to 100+weather) but I saw a cloud that
reminded me of a pig...I have associated pigs with my son(Wally's)
death...he loved that song-Wings of a Pig.....so I started collecting
just about anything that is a pig(like statues,ect) We even played
that song
at my son's funeral back in '96....I still got a shirt of his in my
closet so that
reminds me of him and still got photos of him in my bathroom(I know-of
all
places- but I feel that room is more "mine" then any other room in the
house
(dh and other son's bathroom is the main one) I also plan to change
out the
shower curtain-it's a black one with big white roses(we covered our
son's
casket with a ton of white roses)...when things surprise me to remind
me
of my Wally, I can feel a quick jolt of pure love in remembrance and
think
that is so neat! Anyway, thought I'd share this and also to send you
all
hugs here.....Jo(real name is Sue-Jo is my computer name)
From: Daisy on 25 Jul 2008 12:39
Next time I see a pig it will remind me of your wally....pigs are so cute.
You'll have to send me your address so I can send you some when I see them.
((hugs))

--
Daisy
"Jo in Ok" <josigha(a)yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:68f6bd70-7da1-456b-baf0-f6b38bf0a553(a)h17g2000prg.googlegroups.com...
On Jul 23, 6:15 pm, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
> I am kind of going through a phase of depression, I'm so far from my sons
> gravesite that I used to visit alot when I lived in Kansas that I find I
> miss doing that. Work is so stressful lately and some nights I just look
> at
> Busters picture hanging on the wall and cry myself to sleep, even after
> eleven years it still happens. His sadiversary date was last month and no
> one in my family even remembered and it hurt alot. I'm glad I've got you
> people here but I wish there were more communication goin on in here like
> it
> used to be. ((hugs))
>
> --
> Daisy"Liliana" <xen...(a)rogers.com> wrote in message
>
> news:51e1fe70-5436-4e39-94b9-0ab98421c269(a)l42g2000hsc.googlegroups.com...
> On Jul 23, 9:34 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>
> > I remember this group being a thriving one, what happened? I hope you
> > all
> > aren't suppressing your feelings because this group was a lifesaver when
> > I
> > needed them. Love to you all.
>
> > --
> > Daisy
>
> You are right Daisy,
> There are so many names I remember but now rarely see posting. I have
> found I check asg less often now, as the trolls, the inappropriate
> advertisements, and sometime the controversy, when all we want is to
> share our grief can be so discouraging. I too appreciate the many
> responses when I poured my heart out, and felt less alone knowing
> there were other mothers and fathers who had lost a child. All of
> you, who held me up, so many times, I thank you.

(((((((((((Daisy and all here))))))))))))))))))))))))
I only occasionally check in or read... sorry to
hear your depression has come back...I don't think
mine will ever leave-it is like it is a part of me-have had
it so long(since childhood)
.....of course I am also not taking meds for it
so yeah, will feel it more.....
I am loving being retired - life may have slowed down more
to a slower pace but still -don't have to answer to the
"man"!.....I also wanted to share that just a few minutes ago,
I was outside(not too long due to 100+weather) but I saw a cloud that
reminded me of a pig...I have associated pigs with my son(Wally's)
death...he loved that song-Wings of a Pig.....so I started collecting
just about anything that is a pig(like statues,ect) We even played
that song
at my son's funeral back in '96....I still got a shirt of his in my
closet so that
reminds me of him and still got photos of him in my bathroom(I know-of
all
places- but I feel that room is more "mine" then any other room in the
house
(dh and other son's bathroom is the main one) I also plan to change
out the
shower curtain-it's a black one with big white roses(we covered our
son's
casket with a ton of white roses)...when things surprise me to remind
me
of my Wally, I can feel a quick jolt of pure love in remembrance and
think
that is so neat! Anyway, thought I'd share this and also to send you
all
hugs here.....Jo(real name is Sue-Jo is my computer name)


From: Jo in Ok on 26 Jul 2008 14:00
On Jul 25, 9:39 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
> Next time I see a pig it will remind me of your wally....pigs are so cute..
> You'll have to send me your address so I can send you some when I see them.
> ((hugs))
>
> --
> Daisy
> "Jo in Ok" <josi...(a)yahoo.com> wrote in messagenews:68f6bd70-7da1-456b-baf0-f6b38bf0a553(a)h17g2000prg.googlegroups.com...
> On Jul 23, 6:15 pm, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>
>
>
>
>
> > I am kind of going through a phase of depression, I'm so far from my sons
> > gravesite that I used to visit alot when I lived in Kansas that I find I
> > miss doing that. Work is so stressful lately and some nights I just look
> > at
> > Busters picture hanging on the wall and cry myself to sleep, even after
> > eleven years it still happens. His sadiversary date was last month and no
> > one in my family even remembered and it hurt alot. I'm glad I've got you
> > people here but I wish there were more communication goin on in here like
> > it
> > used to be. ((hugs))
>
> > --
> > Daisy"Liliana" <xen...(a)rogers.com> wrote in message
>
> >news:51e1fe70-5436-4e39-94b9-0ab98421c269(a)l42g2000hsc.googlegroups.com....
> > On Jul 23, 9:34 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>
> > > I remember this group being a thriving one, what happened? I hope you
> > > all
> > > aren't suppressing your feelings because this group was a lifesaver when
> > > I
> > > needed them. Love to you all.
>
> > > --
> > > Daisy
>
> > You are right Daisy,
> > There are so many names I remember but now rarely see posting. I have
> > found I check asg less often now, as the trolls, the inappropriate
> > advertisements, and sometime the controversy, when all we want is to
> > share our grief can be so discouraging. I too appreciate the many
> > responses when I poured my heart out, and felt less alone knowing
> > there were other mothers and fathers who had lost a child. All of
> > you, who held me up, so many times, I thank you.
>
> (((((((((((Daisy and all here))))))))))))))))))))))))
> I only occasionally check in or read... sorry to
> hear your depression has come back...I don't think
> mine will ever leave-it is like it is a part of me-have had
> it so long(since childhood)
> ....of course I am also not taking meds for it
> so yeah, will feel it more.....
>   I am loving being retired - life may have slowed down more
> to a slower pace but still -don't have to answer to the
> "man"!.....I also wanted to share that just a few minutes ago,
> I was outside(not too long due to 100+weather) but I saw a cloud that
> reminded me of a pig...I have associated pigs with my son(Wally's)
> death...he loved that song-Wings of a Pig.....so I started collecting
> just about anything that is a pig(like statues,ect) We even played
> that song
> at my son's funeral back in '96....I still got a shirt of his in my
> closet so that
> reminds me of him and still got photos of him in my bathroom(I know-of
> all
> places- but I feel that room is more "mine" then any other room in the
> house
> (dh and other son's bathroom is the main one) I also plan to change
> out the
> shower curtain-it's a black one with big white roses(we covered our
> son's
> casket with a ton of white roses)...when things surprise me to remind
> me
> of my Wally, I can feel a quick jolt of pure love in remembrance and
> think
> that is so neat! Anyway, thought I'd share this and also to send you
> all
> hugs here.....Jo(real name is Sue-Jo is my computer name)- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

Daisy, I will email you instead-hope that's ok...Jo ;)
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