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From: Daisy on 26 Jul 2008 14:27
Sure sweetie, that's fine :)

--
Daisy
"Jo in Ok" <josigha(a)yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:799603d0-e4c3-4bdd-9191-16df0c446e0d(a)a70g2000hsh.googlegroups.com...
On Jul 25, 9:39 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
> Next time I see a pig it will remind me of your wally....pigs are so cute.
> You'll have to send me your address so I can send you some when I see
> them.
> ((hugs))
>
> --
> Daisy
> "Jo in Ok" <josi...(a)yahoo.com> wrote in
> messagenews:68f6bd70-7da1-456b-baf0-f6b38bf0a553(a)h17g2000prg.googlegroups.com...
> On Jul 23, 6:15 pm, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>
>
>
>
>
> > I am kind of going through a phase of depression, I'm so far from my
> > sons
> > gravesite that I used to visit alot when I lived in Kansas that I find I
> > miss doing that. Work is so stressful lately and some nights I just look
> > at
> > Busters picture hanging on the wall and cry myself to sleep, even after
> > eleven years it still happens. His sadiversary date was last month and
> > no
> > one in my family even remembered and it hurt alot. I'm glad I've got you
> > people here but I wish there were more communication goin on in here
> > like
> > it
> > used to be. ((hugs))
>
> > --
> > Daisy"Liliana" <xen...(a)rogers.com> wrote in message
>
> >news:51e1fe70-5436-4e39-94b9-0ab98421c269(a)l42g2000hsc.googlegroups.com...
> > On Jul 23, 9:34 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>
> > > I remember this group being a thriving one, what happened? I hope you
> > > all
> > > aren't suppressing your feelings because this group was a lifesaver
> > > when
> > > I
> > > needed them. Love to you all.
>
> > > --
> > > Daisy
>
> > You are right Daisy,
> > There are so many names I remember but now rarely see posting. I have
> > found I check asg less often now, as the trolls, the inappropriate
> > advertisements, and sometime the controversy, when all we want is to
> > share our grief can be so discouraging. I too appreciate the many
> > responses when I poured my heart out, and felt less alone knowing
> > there were other mothers and fathers who had lost a child. All of
> > you, who held me up, so many times, I thank you.
>
> (((((((((((Daisy and all here))))))))))))))))))))))))
> I only occasionally check in or read... sorry to
> hear your depression has come back...I don't think
> mine will ever leave-it is like it is a part of me-have had
> it so long(since childhood)
> ....of course I am also not taking meds for it
> so yeah, will feel it more.....
> I am loving being retired - life may have slowed down more
> to a slower pace but still -don't have to answer to the
> "man"!.....I also wanted to share that just a few minutes ago,
> I was outside(not too long due to 100+weather) but I saw a cloud that
> reminded me of a pig...I have associated pigs with my son(Wally's)
> death...he loved that song-Wings of a Pig.....so I started collecting
> just about anything that is a pig(like statues,ect) We even played
> that song
> at my son's funeral back in '96....I still got a shirt of his in my
> closet so that
> reminds me of him and still got photos of him in my bathroom(I know-of
> all
> places- but I feel that room is more "mine" then any other room in the
> house
> (dh and other son's bathroom is the main one) I also plan to change
> out the
> shower curtain-it's a black one with big white roses(we covered our
> son's
> casket with a ton of white roses)...when things surprise me to remind
> me
> of my Wally, I can feel a quick jolt of pure love in remembrance and
> think
> that is so neat! Anyway, thought I'd share this and also to send you
> all
> hugs here.....Jo(real name is Sue-Jo is my computer name)- Hide quoted
> text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

Daisy, I will email you instead-hope that's ok...Jo ;)


From: Ken McM. on 26 Jul 2008 23:19
Jo in Ok wrote:
> On Jul 25, 9:39 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>> Next time I see a pig it will remind me of your wally....pigs are so cute.
>> You'll have to send me your address so I can send you some when I see them.
>> ((hugs))
>>
>> --
>> Daisy
>> "Jo in Ok" <josi...(a)yahoo.com> wrote in messagenews:68f6bd70-7da1-456b-baf0-f6b38bf0a553(a)h17g2000prg.googlegroups.com...
>> On Jul 23, 6:15 pm, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>> I am kind of going through a phase of depression, I'm so far from my sons
>>> gravesite that I used to visit alot when I lived in Kansas that I find I
>>> miss doing that. Work is so stressful lately and some nights I just look
>>> at
>>> Busters picture hanging on the wall and cry myself to sleep, even after
>>> eleven years it still happens. His sadiversary date was last month and no
>>> one in my family even remembered and it hurt alot. I'm glad I've got you
>>> people here but I wish there were more communication goin on in here like
>>> it
>>> used to be. ((hugs))
>>> --
>>> Daisy"Liliana" <xen...(a)rogers.com> wrote in message
>>> news:51e1fe70-5436-4e39-94b9-0ab98421c269(a)l42g2000hsc.googlegroups.com...
>>> On Jul 23, 9:34 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>>>> I remember this group being a thriving one, what happened? I hope you
>>>> all
>>>> aren't suppressing your feelings because this group was a lifesaver when
>>>> I
>>>> needed them. Love to you all.
>>>> --
>>>> Daisy
>>> You are right Daisy,
>>> There are so many names I remember but now rarely see posting. I have
>>> found I check asg less often now, as the trolls, the inappropriate
>>> advertisements, and sometime the controversy, when all we want is to
>>> share our grief can be so discouraging. I too appreciate the many
>>> responses when I poured my heart out, and felt less alone knowing
>>> there were other mothers and fathers who had lost a child. All of
>>> you, who held me up, so many times, I thank you.
>> (((((((((((Daisy and all here))))))))))))))))))))))))
>> I only occasionally check in or read... sorry to
>> hear your depression has come back...I don't think
>> mine will ever leave-it is like it is a part of me-have had
>> it so long(since childhood)
>> ....of course I am also not taking meds for it
>> so yeah, will feel it more.....
>> I am loving being retired - life may have slowed down more
>> to a slower pace but still -don't have to answer to the
>> "man"!.....I also wanted to share that just a few minutes ago,
>> I was outside(not too long due to 100+weather) but I saw a cloud that
>> reminded me of a pig...I have associated pigs with my son(Wally's)
>> death...he loved that song-Wings of a Pig.....so I started collecting
>> just about anything that is a pig(like statues,ect) We even played
>> that song
>> at my son's funeral back in '96....I still got a shirt of his in my
>> closet so that
>> reminds me of him and still got photos of him in my bathroom(I know-of
>> all
>> places- but I feel that room is more "mine" then any other room in the
>> house
>> (dh and other son's bathroom is the main one) I also plan to change
>> out the
>> shower curtain-it's a black one with big white roses(we covered our
>> son's
>> casket with a ton of white roses)...when things surprise me to remind
>> me
>> of my Wally, I can feel a quick jolt of pure love in remembrance and
>> think
>> that is so neat! Anyway, thought I'd share this and also to send you
>> all
>> hugs here.....Jo(real name is Sue-Jo is my computer name)- Hide quoted text -
>>
>> - Show quoted text -
>
> Daisy, I will email you instead-hope that's ok...Jo ;)

Hi, Daisy.
Just a note on it being quiet in here:
Using my regular news server/reader, I never see posts from you - only
if someone replies to your post.
However, I do see your posts when I review them in Google.
I wonder if there are others like this.

Ken
From: NotYet1121 on 28 Jul 2008 04:12
On Jul 26, 10:19 pm, "Ken McM." <kmcmonig-removes...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
> Jo in Ok wrote:
> > On Jul 25, 9:39 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
> >> Next time I see a pig it will remind me of your wally....pigs are so cute.
> >> You'll have to send me your address so I can send you some when I see them.
> >> ((hugs))
>
> >> --
> >> Daisy
> >> "Jo in Ok" <josi...(a)yahoo.com> wrote in messagenews:68f6bd70-7da1-456b-baf0-f6b38bf0a553(a)h17g2000prg.googlegroups.com...
> >> On Jul 23, 6:15 pm, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>
> >>> I am kind of going through a phase of depression, I'm so far from my sons
> >>> gravesite that I used to visit alot when I lived in Kansas that I find I
> >>> miss doing that. Work is so stressful lately and some nights I just look
> >>> at
> >>> Busters picture hanging on the wall and cry myself to sleep, even after
> >>> eleven years it still happens. His sadiversary date was last month and no
> >>> one in my family even remembered and it hurt alot. I'm glad I've got you
> >>> people here but I wish there were more communication goin on in here like
> >>> it
> >>> used to be. ((hugs))
> >>> --
> >>> Daisy"Liliana" <xen...(a)rogers.com> wrote in message
> >>>news:51e1fe70-5436-4e39-94b9-0ab98421c269(a)l42g2000hsc.googlegroups.com...
> >>> On Jul 23, 9:34 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
> >>>> I remember this group being a thriving one, what happened? I hope you
> >>>> all
> >>>> aren't suppressing your feelings because this group was a lifesaver when
> >>>> I
> >>>> needed them. Love to you all.
> >>>> --
> >>>> Daisy
> >>> You are right Daisy,
> >>> There are so many names I remember but now rarely see posting. I have
> >>> found I check asg less often now, as the trolls, the inappropriate
> >>> advertisements, and sometime the controversy, when all we want is to
> >>> share our grief can be so discouraging. I too appreciate the many
> >>> responses when I poured my heart out, and felt less alone knowing
> >>> there were other mothers and fathers who had lost a child. All of
> >>> you, who held me up, so many times, I thank you.
> >> (((((((((((Daisy and all here))))))))))))))))))))))))
> >> I only occasionally check in or read... sorry to
> >> hear your depression has come back...I don't think
> >> mine will ever leave-it is like it is a part of me-have had
> >> it so long(since childhood)
> >> ....of course I am also not taking meds for it
> >> so yeah, will feel it more.....
> >> I am loving being retired - life may have slowed down more
> >> to a slower pace but still -don't have to answer to the
> >> "man"!.....I also wanted to share that just a few minutes ago,
> >> I was outside(not too long due to 100+weather) but I saw a cloud that
> >> reminded me of a pig...I have associated pigs with my son(Wally's)
> >> death...he loved that song-Wings of a Pig.....so I started collecting
> >> just about anything that is a pig(like statues,ect) We even played
> >> that song
> >> at my son's funeral back in '96....I still got a shirt of his in my
> >> closet so that
> >> reminds me of him and still got photos of him in my bathroom(I know-of
> >> all
> >> places- but I feel that room is more "mine" then any other room in the
> >> house
> >> (dh and other son's bathroom is the main one) I also plan to change
> >> out the
> >> shower curtain-it's a black one with big white roses(we covered our
> >> son's
> >> casket with a ton of white roses)...when things surprise me to remind
> >> me
> >> of my Wally, I can feel a quick jolt of pure love in remembrance and
> >> think
> >> that is so neat! Anyway, thought I'd share this and also to send you
> >> all
> >> hugs here.....Jo(real name is Sue-Jo is my computer name)- Hide quoted text -
>
> >> - Show quoted text -
>
> > Daisy, I will email you instead-hope that's ok...Jo ;)
>
> Hi, Daisy.
> Just a note on it being quiet in here:
> Using my regular news server/reader, I never see posts from you - only
> if someone replies to your post.
> However, I do see your posts when I review them in Google.
> I wonder if there are others like this.
>
> Ken

Question? How do you review things here in google?

Lynn - Josh's Mom
Love is Stronger than Death
From: Daisy on 28 Jul 2008 19:17
I'm sure there are others, now I'm wondering if it really is this quiet or
I'm just not getting much of the postings?

--
Daisy
"Ken McM." <kmcmonig-removespam(a)yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:g6gpf1$s0b$1(a)aioe.org...
> Jo in Ok wrote:
>> On Jul 25, 9:39 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>>> Next time I see a pig it will remind me of your wally....pigs are so
>>> cute.
>>> You'll have to send me your address so I can send you some when I see
>>> them.
>>> ((hugs))
>>>
>>> --
>>> Daisy
>>> "Jo in Ok" <josi...(a)yahoo.com> wrote in
>>> messagenews:68f6bd70-7da1-456b-baf0-f6b38bf0a553(a)h17g2000prg.googlegroups.com...
>>> On Jul 23, 6:15 pm, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>> I am kind of going through a phase of depression, I'm so far from my
>>>> sons
>>>> gravesite that I used to visit alot when I lived in Kansas that I find
>>>> I
>>>> miss doing that. Work is so stressful lately and some nights I just
>>>> look
>>>> at
>>>> Busters picture hanging on the wall and cry myself to sleep, even after
>>>> eleven years it still happens. His sadiversary date was last month and
>>>> no
>>>> one in my family even remembered and it hurt alot. I'm glad I've got
>>>> you
>>>> people here but I wish there were more communication goin on in here
>>>> like
>>>> it
>>>> used to be. ((hugs))
>>>> --
>>>> Daisy"Liliana" <xen...(a)rogers.com> wrote in message
>>>> news:51e1fe70-5436-4e39-94b9-0ab98421c269(a)l42g2000hsc.googlegroups.com...
>>>> On Jul 23, 9:34 am, "Daisy" <sweetdaisy67...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
>>>>> I remember this group being a thriving one, what happened? I hope you
>>>>> all
>>>>> aren't suppressing your feelings because this group was a lifesaver
>>>>> when
>>>>> I
>>>>> needed them. Love to you all.
>>>>> --
>>>>> Daisy
>>>> You are right Daisy,
>>>> There are so many names I remember but now rarely see posting. I have
>>>> found I check asg less often now, as the trolls, the inappropriate
>>>> advertisements, and sometime the controversy, when all we want is to
>>>> share our grief can be so discouraging. I too appreciate the many
>>>> responses when I poured my heart out, and felt less alone knowing
>>>> there were other mothers and fathers who had lost a child. All of
>>>> you, who held me up, so many times, I thank you.
>>> (((((((((((Daisy and all here))))))))))))))))))))))))
>>> I only occasionally check in or read... sorry to
>>> hear your depression has come back...I don't think
>>> mine will ever leave-it is like it is a part of me-have had
>>> it so long(since childhood)
>>> ....of course I am also not taking meds for it
>>> so yeah, will feel it more.....
>>> I am loving being retired - life may have slowed down more
>>> to a slower pace but still -don't have to answer to the
>>> "man"!.....I also wanted to share that just a few minutes ago,
>>> I was outside(not too long due to 100+weather) but I saw a cloud that
>>> reminded me of a pig...I have associated pigs with my son(Wally's)
>>> death...he loved that song-Wings of a Pig.....so I started collecting
>>> just about anything that is a pig(like statues,ect) We even played
>>> that song
>>> at my son's funeral back in '96....I still got a shirt of his in my
>>> closet so that
>>> reminds me of him and still got photos of him in my bathroom(I know-of
>>> all
>>> places- but I feel that room is more "mine" then any other room in the
>>> house
>>> (dh and other son's bathroom is the main one) I also plan to change
>>> out the
>>> shower curtain-it's a black one with big white roses(we covered our
>>> son's
>>> casket with a ton of white roses)...when things surprise me to remind
>>> me
>>> of my Wally, I can feel a quick jolt of pure love in remembrance and
>>> think
>>> that is so neat! Anyway, thought I'd share this and also to send you
>>> all
>>> hugs here.....Jo(real name is Sue-Jo is my computer name)- Hide quoted
>>> text -
>>>
>>> - Show quoted text -
>>
>> Daisy, I will email you instead-hope that's ok...Jo ;)
>
> Hi, Daisy.
> Just a note on it being quiet in here:
> Using my regular news server/reader, I never see posts from you - only
> if someone replies to your post.
> However, I do see your posts when I review them in Google.
> I wonder if there are others like this.
>
> Ken


From: Ken McM. on 28 Jul 2008 20:19
NotYet1121 wrote:
> On Jul 26, 10:19 pm, "Ken McM." <kmcmonig-removes...(a)yahoo.com> wrote:
<gentle snip>
>> Hi, Daisy.
>> Just a note on it being quiet in here:
>> Using my regular news server/reader, I never see posts from you - only
>> if someone replies to your post.
>> However, I do see your posts when I review them in Google.
>> I wonder if there are others like this.
>>
>> Ken
>
> Question? How do you review things here in google?
>
> Lynn - Josh's Mom
> Love is Stronger than Death

http://groups.google.com/group/alt.support.grief/topics?hl=en

One can read and search without registering.
However, to post, one must set up a free e-mail account.

Ken

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