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From: blacklamby on 10 Jan 2008 06:45 is there anyone out there who has lost an only daughter? Please email me Thank Laura
From: Cindy's Mom on 10 Jan 2008 10:46 On Jan 10, 4:45 am, blackla...(a)gmail.com wrote: > is there anyone out there who has lost an only daughter? > Please email me > Thank > Laura Hi Laura..I have lost my only daughter and it is a loss that is so different than any I have ever experienced in my 60 years of life. My daughter Cindy died on October 25,2006 unexpectedly..I was not able to say good-bye or tell her I loved her as she was in a coma by the time I reached the hospital. She was 38 years old. Besides being my only daughter, she was my best friend and confidant...we shared so many things in her/my life that I never shared with anyone else.She was a thoughtful person and knew better than anyone else my likes and dislikes and she had such sweet ways about her. I so miss our daily phone converstations and fun shopping trips and lunches. I am learning to give thanks for the life we shared and the joy she brought to my life, but it doesn't help the missing her. I am blessed with a son who is married and I have three grandchildren, but the emptiness my heart feels without my daughter will never be filled. I think of her everyday when I first awake and she is last thought before I sleep. The world is not as bright a place without her sweet spirit in it and I only pray I will be reunited with her energy when I cross the other side. Hugs to you Laura..how old was your daughter and what was your relationship like? Judy, Cindy's Mom
From: john.orthwein on 10 Jan 2008 15:38 On Jan 10, 6:45 am, blackla...(a)gmail.com wrote: > is there anyone out there who has lost an only daughter? > Please email me > Thank > Laura I lost my only daughter, my best friend, my future, my reason for happiness and joy. She died suddenly and unexpectedly with a ruptured brain aneurysm at home. She was 19, a month away from 20. This happened in June of this year. I dread each new day. Anna and I would talk about anything and everything. Even when she was away at college, we would talk at least once per day, but usually we spoke several times per day. She was my future and really, she still is. My future will not be anything beyond mere physical existance until I am reunited with her.
From: Cindy's Mom on 10 Jan 2008 18:20 On Jan 10, 1:38 pm, john.orthw...(a)gmail.com wrote: > On Jan 10, 6:45 am, blackla...(a)gmail.com wrote: > > > is there anyone out there who has lost an only daughter? > > Please email me > > Thank > > Laura > > I lost my only daughter, my best friend, my future, my reason for > happiness and joy. She died suddenly and unexpectedly with a ruptured > brain aneurysm at home. She was 19, a month away from 20. This > happened in June of this year. I dread each new day. Anna and I would > talk about anything and everything. Even when she was away at college, > we would talk at least once per day, but usually we spoke several > times per day. She was my future and really, she still is. My future > will not be anything beyond mere physical existance until I am > reunited with her. John..I am sorry for your loss. I know just how you feel(see my post above yours). Life will not have the rainbow in it anymore, that is for sure,only black and white. I will keep you in my thoughts and we struggle to make it through each day. Judy, Cindy's Mom
From: Liliana on 10 Jan 2008 20:24
On Jan 10, 3:38 pm, john.orthw...(a)gmail.com wrote: > On Jan 10, 6:45 am, blackla...(a)gmail.com wrote: > > > is there anyone out there who has lost an only daughter? > > Please email me > > Thank > > Laura > > I lost my only daughter, my best friend, my future, my reason for > happiness and joy. She died suddenly and unexpectedly with a ruptured > brain aneurysm at home. She was 19, a month away from 20. This > happened in June of this year. I dread each new day. Anna and I would > talk about anything and everything. Even when she was away at college, > we would talk at least once per day, but usually we spoke several > times per day. She was my future and really, she still is. My future > will not be anything beyond mere physical existance until I am > reunited with her. I am so sorry for your loss. I lost a son 9 years ago, and it still feels like yesterday. Life is so unfair... It is wrong , unfair, unjust, evil, that you should lose your only daughter. A mother or father to lose a child is the ultimate pain. Like you say.... everything is taken away. I wish you some patches of relief and peace in your grieving process. Laura, it sounds like you were very close, and oh how I know how much you miss hearing her voice everyday. |