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From: Rambler on 26 Nov 2005 11:28
Cheryl wrote:
> Bogart wrote:
>
>>
>>
>> yes, I agree. My entire reason for saying "selfish towards me" was
>> to base what I said on observation - that is to say only what
>> I had evidence for and not generalise beyond there. It was a kind of
>> logically "narrower" statement not a personalisation. I know she
>> behaves selfishly towards me because I've experienced it.
>> She *may* behave selfishly to others but I have no concrete
>> evidence.
>>
>> bogey
>
>
> Understood, you can only go by your own experience. My distinction is
> that she is not doing it 'to you' intentionally. It's not about you at
> all, it's all about her.

Very true. Here's the problem. While it is about her (I've morphed
over to my ex here), her actions still affect my relationship with my
kids.

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