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From: Chip on 10 Oct 2008 02:15 "Diana" <diaNOSPAMthijs(a)hetnet.nl> wrote in message news:48ec03bd$0$741$3a628fcd(a)textreader.nntp.hccnet.nl... > My dear Family; > > Does anyone has this to? > > Are you afraid when you are home alone? no. I'm thankful for the peace :) > I am > Can you take a shower when you are alone? yes. I wouldn't want anyone in there with me :) > I can't > Can you go out of the house alone? Yes. Although there was a time I had to drink alot of alcohol just to get out the front door. And even if I had alot to drink, I still had a hard time going inside stores cause they made me feel trapped. I used to leave the Safeway food store cause I'd have a panic attack. I left a shopping cart full of food several times. > I can't > Can you drive your carr alone? yes. But I've always considered my car my 2nd home, and that helped to make me feel more secure in the car. Although on a long trip I'd have to take someone I trusted not to panic. If they are secure I feel secure. If they're anxious, I get anxious. > I can't > Do you feel safe when you are alone? pretty much. > I don't > For all these things I need some extra pills One advantage of being single (as I am) is you learn to be by yourself, and do a lot by yourself. Diana, being married, you may tend to depend on your husband a lot. I don't know how much you depend on him. But it's easy to start depending on others for various things if you live with them. But beyond that, I think your current level of anxiety is higher than mine, for whatever reason(s). If a person is anxious, they can develope all kinds of fears and insecurities. Chip -- ========== Please DELETE this text block when replying! ========== Contact the moderators at: asapm-board(a)stump.algebra.com The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm ========= This notice is added to each approved article ==========
From: Gloria Wolfe on 14 Oct 2008 00:01 This is an interesting E-mail, because anxiety hits every one of us differently. For myself, I like being alone during the day and enjoying the quiet and time alone to do what I want to do, or NOT do what I don't want to do ;-) I also like to shop alone and many times eat out alone when I'm running errands. As for the shower, I always make sure both my doors are locked, because our bathroom is upstairs, but I'm not paranoid about it. On the other hand, I don't like being in groups of people, or where there's a lot of noise, talking and confusion. It may be social anxiety, although I don't get the panic attacks; I just try to avoid those type of get-togethers. It seems like the older I get, and the longer I live with chronic pain, I strive for as much peace and quiet as I can control in my own life. I wish I could help you; do you like being around other people, or are you just fearful of being alone? And, have you been fearful of being alone for a long time? I can imagine how paralizing it must be to you. Nanny On 10/9/2008 5:21 PM, prunella(a)rogers.com wrote to All: -> "Tennessee Tony" <tennessee.tony(a)gmail.com> wrote in message -> news:6l6ne4Faub1fU1(a)mid.individual.net... -> > kilikini wrote: -> >> MsMonarchdancer(a)gmail.com wrote: -> >>> On Tue, 7 Oct 2008 19:50:31 -0500, "Diana" <diaNOSPAMthijs(a)hetnet.nl> -> >>> wrote: -> >>> -> >>>>> My dear Family; -> >>>>> -> >>>>> Does anyone has this to? -> >>>>> -> >>>>> Are you afraid when you are home alone? I am -> >>>>> Can you take a shower when you are alone? I can't -> >>>>> Can you go out of the house alone? I can't -> >>>>> Can you drive your carr alone? I can't -> >>>>> Do you feel safe when you are alone? I don't -> >>>>> For all these things I need some extra pills -> >>> Dear Diana, -> >>> -> >>> I have struggled with all of this at one time or another with my -> >>> disorder. One thing I will never like is taking a shower home alone. -> >>> The other stuff I can deal with okay now. I empathize with what you -> >>> are going through. (((((Diana))))) -> >>> -> >> -> >> I've struggled with a few of those things, myself. I definitely prefer -> >> taking a shower when my husband is home because I'm afraid I'm going to -> >> fall. Home alone, I like, in a way, because I get the TV, but I -> >> wouldn't like to be home alone at night! -> >> -> >> kili -> > -> > It's nice to see that I'm not alone in the shower.XXXXXX Wait, let me -> > rewrite that. I'm not alone in not liking to take a shower with no one -> > else at home, which is 99% of the time. And although I'm alone 99% of -> > the time, the anxiety is only bad about 25% of the time. Did that make -> > any sense? -> > -> > Tony -> -> I don't like to take a shower if I'm alone in the house either and I -> won't. -> -> Di -> -> -- -> ========== Please DELETE this text block when replying! ========== -> Contact the moderators at: asapm-board(a)stump.algebra.com -> The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm -> ========= This notice is added to each approved article ========== -> -- ========== Please DELETE this text block when replying! ========== Contact the moderators at: asapm-board(a)stump.algebra.com The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm ========= This notice is added to each approved article ==========
From: arthurgoogle on 14 Oct 2008 08:45 On Oct 7, 8:50�pm, "Diana" <diaNOSPAMth...(a)hetnet.nl> wrote: > My dear Family; > > Does anyone has this to? > > Are you afraid when you are home alone? I am At times, but I live alone and had to adapt tp it. > Can you take a shower when you are alone? I can't Showers used to tricky for me. I often felt like I would collapse, sometime still do and rush through routine. For the most part, I just try to do things when I have a window of low anxiety. > Can you go out of the house alone? I can't I struggled with agoraphobia for years, but gradually made progess with small steps and never giving up. > Can you drive your carr alone? I can't I had to give up driving after PAs nearly caused a few accidents. > Do you feel safe when you are alone? I don't Not always, but again I had to adapt. > For all these things I need some extra pills Have you told your doc that you feel under-medicated? > Love Diana Love and Best Wishes, Arthur -- ========== Please DELETE this text block when replying! ========== Contact the moderators at: asapm-board(a)stump.algebra.com The charter is available at: http://readystump.algebra.com/~asapm ========= This notice is added to each approved article ==========
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