From: ""jordy"" on

sometimes when people give you compliments, it really makes you feel
very good... It's fun to replay these moments in your mind, and it
really lifts your self esteem... then, when people say or do things
that hurt your feelings, your self esteem goes down, and you replay
those memories in your mind... I guess you have to find ways to have
your self esteem not be so dependent on the approval or disapproval of
other people... that's always been very difficult for me...