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From: Shadow39 on 18 Sep 2008 22:55 "SamIAm" <iamsam(a)drseus.com> wrote in message news:w5wAk.25936$QF5.4628(a)newsfe08.iad... > DB wrote: >> "SamIAm" <iamsam(a)drseus.com> wrote in >> >>> I don't see getting rid of CS as an option, because clearly there are >>> many instances where it is needed. >> >> yes, but there needs to be a ceiling to cap these extortionate rates the >> government thinks it can impose on fathers. >> >> What's wrong with setting $300 max for both the mother and the father and >> then let the father buy any extra things he wants to buy his kids? > > The problem with this is ..... > > Family earning $250,000 per year (mother earns $200,000 - husband earns > $50,000) two kids aged 13 and 15. > > Divorce Happens > > With Child Support limited to only include basics ($300/year), it would be > very difficult for the kids to choose to live with Dad. He would hardly > be able to afford an apartment let alone a home. > > Child Support Tables are meant to equalize the standard of living between > the father and mother when divorce happens. I'd be happy as hell if I made 50K a year and only paid 600 a month for two kids. I make around 28K a year now and pay nearly 500 a month for 2.
From: DB on 19 Sep 2008 11:51 "Shadow39" <no(a)no.com> wrote in > I'd be happy as hell if I made 50K a year and only paid 600 a month for > two kids. I make around 28K a year now and pay nearly 500 a month for 2. That's about the norm, most people can't afford these rates even if they were still living together! The majority in the system work atmenial ojbs paying $8 to $10 andhourbecuase that's all they can find as the good manufacturing jobs have gone south, but are expectedto pay $400 per month. Would any of these socalled deadbeats even qualify for a car loan at $300 month and paying a normal rent load of $700 + food/utilities/clothing and transportation costs. Imagine your one child costing more than your mortgage? That's what the government thinks you should be paying!!!!!!!!! This is the same government thatjust erased a $2 trillion dollar debt for the deadbeat bankers!
From: leabuckley on 21 Sep 2008 20:25 On Sep 9, 12:58 pm, Tomcat <tom_overton_1...(a)yahoo.com> wrote: > On Sep 9, 11:28 am, "Bob W" <robe...(a)teleport.com> wrote: > > > > > > > "Tomcat" <tom_overton_1...(a)yahoo.com> wrote in message > > >news:de88eda3-9513-4a3c-b014-327f431e49b8(a)i76g2000hsf.googlegroups.com.... > > > > My girlfriend's ex is Chinese and he moved back to China. I think > > > he's a dual citizen. Is there a way to collect child support from > > > him? They were divorced here in the U.S. with child support required > > > in the decree. I would assume collecting it now would be a very long > > > and tedious process, especially considering the fact it's China we're > > > talking about. Its just sad that he can run back to a country > > > experiencing extreme economic growith and become a millionaire while > > > his son is here suffering financially. > > > International CS cases are managed under treatises. It all depends on > > whether your country has a CS treaty agreement with China or not. > > > Why are you getting involved in a private matter between the child's mother > > and father? My advice would be to butt out! > > How is simply asking a general question on a newsgroup, as a friend > and lover of another person, "getting involved in a private matter"? > It's not like I'm ordering her around, demanding to see every detail > of her divorce papers and telling her what to do.. I'm just curious as > to how international CS cases work and thought I'd try to get some > insight so I could be more educated and understand things more. Is > that going too far? Thanks for the response though :)- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text - You are asking a lot from these bitter spouses who's husbands have obligations to thier children from prior relationships/marriages. Didn't you notice how whatamess assumed that your GF was unemployed? It's because she hates her DH's ex, and his daughter. She assumes ALL women with an order for CS is unemployed. I notice that unless you're a NCp, you will get very little advice, and mostly trashed in here. What you should do is contact your local federal CSE agency and see what can be done, if anything even can be done. Like you pointed out, it IS China.
From: Bob W on 21 Sep 2008 21:28
<leabuckley(a)gmail.com> wrote in message news:a4e3443d-b849-4ce1-839a-53791c0e7b66(a)z66g2000hsc.googlegroups.com... On Sep 9, 12:58 pm, Tomcat <tom_overton_1...(a)yahoo.com> wrote: > On Sep 9, 11:28 am, "Bob W" <robe...(a)teleport.com> wrote: > > > > > > > "Tomcat" <tom_overton_1...(a)yahoo.com> wrote in message > > >news:de88eda3-9513-4a3c-b014-327f431e49b8(a)i76g2000hsf.googlegroups.com... > > > > My girlfriend's ex is Chinese and he moved back to China. I think > > > he's a dual citizen. Is there a way to collect child support from > > > him? They were divorced here in the U.S. with child support required > > > in the decree. I would assume collecting it now would be a very long > > > and tedious process, especially considering the fact it's China we're > > > talking about. Its just sad that he can run back to a country > > > experiencing extreme economic growith and become a millionaire while > > > his son is here suffering financially. > > > International CS cases are managed under treatises. It all depends on > > whether your country has a CS treaty agreement with China or not. > > > Why are you getting involved in a private matter between the child's > > mother > > and father? My advice would be to butt out! > > How is simply asking a general question on a newsgroup, as a friend > and lover of another person, "getting involved in a private matter"? > It's not like I'm ordering her around, demanding to see every detail > of her divorce papers and telling her what to do.. I'm just curious as > to how international CS cases work and thought I'd try to get some > insight so I could be more educated and understand things more. Is > that going too far? Thanks for the response though :)- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text - You are asking a lot from these bitter spouses who's husbands have obligations to thier children from prior relationships/marriages. Didn't you notice how whatamess assumed that your GF was unemployed? It's because she hates her DH's ex, and his daughter. She assumes ALL women with an order for CS is unemployed. I notice that unless you're a NCp, you will get very little advice, and mostly trashed in here. What you should do is contact your local federal CSE agency and see what can be done, if anything even can be done. Like you pointed out, it IS China. ======= Your lack of knowledge about the CS system is showing again. There are no "local federal CSE agencies". And state CSE personnel will not discuss a case with anyone other than the obligor, the obligee, and an attorney of record for one of the parties because of privacy rights laws. |