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From: uglav on 31 May 2008 07:17
What a load of poppycock.
If you post to a newsgroup surely you check to see if anyone has
responded.. or do you cross post to hundreds of newsgroups? You don't
see when anyone has tried because you have so set in your mind that
help comes only in specific forms predecided by you. You are not open
to anyone else, nor are you interested in anyone else. True social
interaction begins with interest and concern for another - why not
start with you. Care about someone else for a change. Be interested
in someone else, - it really helps when starting a social interaction.
People reach out to you, you just don't see it. You don't want to.
Pretty much you give the impression that you would be satisfied with
little less than someone, probably more than one regarding you as
having a god-like status or at least treating you like you were some
kind of superior being. Unfortunately for you I doubt anyone but
yourself sees you that way. Certainly if that is what you want, then
you are going to have to realise that one of the chief qualities of a
god or superior being is interest in others. Gets pretty lonely if no
one believes in you, or just as bad just ignores that you are around.
Gods and superior beings generally solve this problem by taking an
interest in others and offering protection and healing and incentives
to others to take an active interest in their existence.
The truth is that when you care about others and regard them as if
they matter more than you, you will be a lot less lonely. Yet you
would rather ignore this and not understand why you don't matter to
anyone. You don't matter to anyone because they do not matter to
you... and you have made this abundantly clear.
From: Mxsmanic on 31 May 2008 15:02
Troll writes:

> Is it a naughty one?

Is it an EVIL one?
From: Michaela on 31 May 2008 16:31
Nice. Very.

- Michaela
uglav(a)hotmail.com wrote:
> On May 29, 9:04 pm, m5d29a1.3.calrob...(a)spamgourmet.com (Robert
Maas,
> http://tinyurl.com/uh3t) wrote:
>>> From: phy <phy...(a)yahoo.com>
>>> Robert Maas was one of the first persons I tried to reach out to.
>>
>> I don't recall you ever reaching out to me, at least not in any
good
>> way. If you believe you did reach out in a good way, please cite
>> evidence:
>> - If you reached out in-person, tell me the location and
>> circumstances.
>> - If you reached out by e-mail, tell me what address you sent from
>> and what address of mine you sent to.
>> - If you reached out via a newsgroup, use Google Groups to find any
>> such article and cite the URL or message-ID.
>
> Why do you need proof?
> Don't you see the white horse?
> Maybe you should look harder. People don't always reach out in the
> ways you expect.
> They may be telling you what you don't want to hear, because they
> believe it will help if you listen.
> When you don't see the hand trying to reach out to you, whose fault
is
> it if you fall?
> If you wait for the hand of a beautiful maiden they may never come
by
> and notice you are in trouble, they may be more concerned with
> noticing the flowers. Even if they do see you, they may not be
> strong enough to rescue you.
> I suggest you try to get back up the cliff on your own. You'll feel
> better for it, and be more admired for it too. And if someone does
> give you a hand, be grateful for it.

--


From: uglav on 3 Jun 2008 04:43
Just wanted to add Robert that if you intend no harm to others then
you have as much right to courtesy and respect as the next person.
One problem when you feel rejected by the community around you is that
it becomes quite hard to believe that people will treat you well and
normally and your own expectation of rejection when you look at others
or have dealings with them like go into a shop and buy things is that
people see the furtive look in your eyes, and the expectation of
unfriendly treatment and often they think you have done something or
are not to be trusted and they then perpetuate the very behaviour that
you have come to expect. It is really really hard but you do have to
try and overcome those negative expectations of other people's
attitude to you and try to develop normal and friendly relations with
those around you in ways that are non-threatening to others. As in
don't expect too much, just hope for an ordinary exchange. Perhaps
try to see the world in a less literal way. You seem to see things
very much in concrete terms, yet a lot of our dealings with others are
not concrete and are more suggestions. Perhaps more importantly
people tend to interact with other humans out of self interest. They
tend to flock to those who make them feel good. You don't give out
any impression that someone will feel good in your company. When
people will feel better in your presence then you will find it easier
to interact with people. Sometimes you have to give something first
to receive. No guarantees but when others find that they feel better
in your presence rather than worse or indifference then you will find
the conditions much more favourable for you to interact with people.
Then eventually you may find the social interaction with others that
you need so much.
From: Nil on 3 Jun 2008 08:25
On May 27, 8:02 am, Robert Maas <remshy...(a)gmail.com> wrote:
> I'm not living, I'm dying.
>
> I never get any significant social contact, never anybody to do
> anything with in a personal way. For more than three months I've been
> totally alone except e-mail. For the past two months I've been so
> horribly depressed that I don't feel like getting out of bed because I
> have nothing good to look forward to. I spend several hours in the
> morning, after I wake up, lying in bed with no reason to get up. I
> daydream about the woman I love, the woman I miss dearly, the woman
> who craved to be held in my arms in late July and got her wish the
> night of Aug.01-02, the woman who is more beautiful than anyone else
> I've met in the past 15 years, but I already loved her before I saw
> her, and I would have continued to love her even if she were as ugly
> as she claimed to be. So I daydream about seeing her again. I daydream
> for three hours nearly every morning, and much of the rest of the day.
> I have nothing to look forward to, no reason to ever get out of bed,
> no reason to go on living. Without daydreaming about her, I suffer
> such terrible twangs of depression I can't stand the pain. But living
> in a fantasy world where I see her again, the depression isn't so bad,
> I can peacefully lie in bed waiting to die.
>
> Nothing at all good happened Monday.
>
> Nothing at all good happened Tuesday.
>
> The only thing even slightly good that happened Wednesday was that an
> attractive young woman smiled at me as she was walking by, and after I
> said 'hi' she asked how I was.
>
> Nothing at all good happened Thurssday. I spent the whole day alone in
> my apartment.
>
> Nothing at all good happened so-far today (Friday). I'm spending the
> whole day alone in my apartment. I have nobody to see, nobody to call.
>
> I have no reason to go on living.

lol! Don't make your life like a poems.
Call me and i will answer you..thats it!

Nil
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