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From: Hylander on

Hylander wrote:
> Actually, it was 13. Sorry,
>
> I think I might have put this:
>
> Score 13
>
> Story No. 1 B,B,B
It's strange to follow strangers.

It's strange to look cross and bringing excess to express lane is rude.

It's strange to overreact like that. "Are you following me?" and Will
you stop following me!" would be more polite.

> Story No. 2 A,C
Some elevators have windows to outside. It could be normal. Borders on
strange

Borrowing a comb is not hygeinic and so this was almost shocking. Lice?
Head Grease? Dirt? Gross!

> Story No. 3 B,B
Sandwiches probably have meat with sodium nitrite which is harmful to
small animals and pigeons eat seeds. Bread or a bun would be different.
PB&J is not much better.

Strange to touch someone's baby without permission.

> Story No. 4 B,A,B
Who writes addresses without names? Strange.

Nothing wrong with it I suppose if you don't get caught.

She is his senior so Ms. DeWitt or Madam would be more proper.

> Story No. 5 A,A
Skipping breakfast is normal.

She's hungry and it's wasting food. Why not?

> Story No. 6 A,B,A,B
Normal because some people are vegetarians with hypertension.

A little rude right?

He didn't eat right? Why would she care if he brought a snack? He could
have hypoglycemia.

Rude to delay dinner for someone else when the point of dinner is to
eat together right?

> Story No. 7 A,A
She's only not touching the forbidden food right?

These are parties right? Not eating there and eating at home the food
she can eat seems appropriate.

> Story No. 8 A,A,A,A,B

Contractors working the yard do this all the time here.

The area behind the bush might be big enough for a nap or "siesta" like
they do in mexico with their sombreros right?

He needs to eat with clean hands right? She's an employer and invited
him in. If the guest bath is right there and unoccupied. I assume they
know each other.

She didn't object when he asked permission. That must have "implied" it
was ok? He could eat it there tidily.

After eating, people are tired and she said he could come inside. I'm
assuming it's a rest, not a full out lay down and snooze.

Curling up behind a large chair is strange. Not shocking per se or
really "eccentric". (unless he's puts on a clown wig while doing it?) I
know people who do that or sit on the carpet in front of the sofa but
yes, this was strange.

From: Hylander on

HGJ wrote:
> Hylander skrev:
> > Actually, it was 13. Sorry,
>
> Do you know how the score is calculated or how different scores are to
> be interpreted? Jessurun refers to "the 'norms' developed by Ellis,
> Ellis, Fraser & Deb (1994)".

No.

> > I think I might have put this:
> >
> > Score 13
>
> Didn't you get any response beside the score from the program?

Yes. (sorry I forgot to mention). It said I have problems with social
interpretation or something like that. (not like yours).

From: HGJ on
Hylander skrev:
> Hylander wrote:
> > Actually, it was 13. Sorry,
> >
> > I think I might have put this:
> >
> > Score 13
> >
> > Story No. 1 B,B,B
> It's strange to follow strangers.
>
> It's strange to look cross and bringing excess to express lane is rude.

The "cross expression" part isn't in italics, so you're not supposed to
rate that.

From: HGJ on
Hylander skrev:
> HGJ wrote:
> > Hylander skrev:
> > > Actually, it was 13. Sorry,
> >
> > Do you know how the score is calculated or how different scores are to
> > be interpreted? Jessurun refers to "the 'norms' developed by Ellis,
> > Ellis, Fraser & Deb (1994)".
>
> No.
>
> > > I think I might have put this:
> > >
> > > Score 13
> >
> > Didn't you get any response beside the score from the program?
>
> Yes. (sorry I forgot to mention). It said I have problems with social
> interpretation or something like that. (not like yours).

That's funny, considering that some posters find my behavior in this
group autistic.

From: Cerebus Lothario on
Hylander wrote:
> Hylander wrote:
>> Actually, it was 13. Sorry,
>>
>> I think I might have put this:
>>
>> Score 13
>>
>> Story No. 1 B,B,B
> It's strange to follow strangers.

Yes, better to avoid them altogether!
>
> It's strange to look cross and bringing excess to express lane is
> rude.

Not really, I get very annoyed with people at these aisles but have since
learned to say nothing - to be truthful my wife told me off.
>
> It's strange to overreact like that. "Are you following me?" and Will
> you stop following me!" would be more polite.

Yes, why not approach a member of staff for assistance?
>
>> Story No. 2 A,C
> Some elevators have windows to outside. It could be normal. Borders on
> strange

Could be an elevator near a front door.

>
> Borrowing a comb is not hygeinic and so this was almost shocking.
> Lice? Head Grease? Dirt? Gross!

Now that is gross! It should all have been planned and organised before
even leaving the house with a contingency for a problem.
>
>> Story No. 3 B,B
> Sandwiches probably have meat with sodium nitrite which is harmful to
> small animals and pigeons eat seeds. Bread or a bun would be
> different. PB&J is not much better.
>
> Strange to touch someone's baby without permission.

Not to mention illegal!
>
>> Story No. 4 B,A,B
> Who writes addresses without names? Strange.

Been there, done that!
>
> Nothing wrong with it I suppose if you don't get caught.

That is just not acceptable - going through peoples stuff without their
permission.
>
> She is his senior so Ms. DeWitt or Madam would be more proper.

Madam in the circumstances should be acceptable, however she addressed him
by his first name so it is fair to assume that she wished to be addressed in
the same manner. But once again it depends how he originally introduced
himself.
>
>> Story No. 5 A,A
> Skipping breakfast is normal.

Yup, happens all the time.
>
> She's hungry and it's wasting food. Why not?

Talking to strangers again - taking their food as well - gross!
>
>> Story No. 6 A,B,A,B
> Normal because some people are vegetarians with hypertension.

Everyone has dietary fads/needs - no problem.
>
> A little rude right?

A little but if you are not up on small talk its the reason you are there.
>
> He didn't eat right? Why would she care if he brought a snack? He
> could have hypoglycemia.

He could but its just a bit weird to do this in front of everyone.
>
> Rude to delay dinner for someone else when the point of dinner is to
> eat together right?

The point of dinner is to consume a meal, the point of a dinner invitation
is to share the experince with other people.
>
>> Story No. 7 A,A
> She's only not touching the forbidden food right?

Yes!
>
> These are parties right? Not eating there and eating at home the food
> she can eat seems appropriate.

Thats her choice because she does not wish to become ill or die.
>
>> Story No. 8 A,A,A,A,B
>
> Contractors working the yard do this all the time here.

Yes! I used to go to a quiet place in the hanger for a lunchtime nap every
day.
>
> The area behind the bush might be big enough for a nap or "siesta"
> like they do in mexico with their sombreros right?

Perhaps out of the sun and not in plain sight so no-one will disturb you.
>
> He needs to eat with clean hands right? She's an employer and invited
> him in. If the guest bath is right there and unoccupied. I assume they
> know each other.

If they don't know each other you should ask permission.
>
> She didn't object when he asked permission. That must have "implied"
> it was ok? He could eat it there tidily.

Dining room makes sense but the kitchen would be better. Some peoples dining
rooms are quite private and only for events.
>
> After eating, people are tired and she said he could come inside. I'm
> assuming it's a rest, not a full out lay down and snooze.

Yes this is strange as he only asked for space to eat his lunch. She did
not give him permission to crash out. Going by this logic and his freedom
of the house why didn't he just find a bedroom and crash out?
>
> Curling up behind a large chair is strange. Not shocking per se or
> really "eccentric". (unless he's puts on a clown wig while doing it?)
> I know people who do that or sit on the carpet in front of the sofa
> but yes, this was strange.

Yes weird indeed!

Incidentaly I got an 11 which told me I didn't seem to have any problems but
that a professional would have to diagnose me - go figure!!!!!!!

C


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