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From: canbstrong on 10 Apr 2007 10:45
I anxiously awaited responses after posting for the first time
yesterday. Thank you to all that provided feedback. I do need to
recognize this as a parenting issue and not just a step- parent issue.
It can be hard somedays to understand my feelings and recognize them
as normal. In response to Vicki, I tend to be the sole caretaker very
often and even though my SD has a great relationship with her bio Dad
they could stand to do more things together. Also, my husband tends to
want to shelter and protect her and I know this is because of the loss
in the family. I have really helped him to look at things differently
for her sake. However, I think my SD still carries that baggage . . .
she would rather be with us than with her friends. It has slowly
gotten better and it is my hope that she blossoms in a positive way
come high school. Until then, I will find more of a balance. I think
that is one factor that needs to be addressed. And I will continue to
encourage if not facilitate "playdates" for her.

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