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From: Tai on 7 Aug 2008 23:14 Vickie wrote: > > Pardon, Billeous. And that's a cute pun, Vickie, it made me think of Asterix! > Hen oida hoti ouden oida. > > Vicrodite
From: Bill in Co on 7 Aug 2008 23:14 Tai wrote: > Bill in Co wrote: >> Vickie wrote: > >>> >>> Pardon, Billeous. >>> Hen oida hoti ouden oida. >>> >>> Vicrodite >> >> Hen oida hoti ouden oida? What is that? Je ne comprendes pas. > > It's all Greek to me! > > (Try Socrates, Bill. ;) It's something we don't usually know at 20 year > old > but it tends to dawn on most of us eventually.) Got it. And there just may be some truth to that. Thanks. :-)
From: AllYou! on 8 Aug 2008 07:43 In news:1d8c2657-efe8-47af-b414-1ee8e17f401e(a)c58g2000hsc.googlegroups.com, Erin <squiggle(a)sympatico.ca> mused: > AllYou! wrote: >> In >> news:b29b040d-2f4c-4f54-a952-f5169096cb59(a)z72g2000hsb.googlegroups.com, >> Erin <squiggle(a)sympatico.ca> mused: >>> DH and I have reached an agreement. >>> He wants me to take him back and I >>> agreed. One false move and......... >>> Just kidding. He was exceedingly >>> sweet to me today and he is trying so >>> hard. How could I resist? >> >> Let me count the ways........ >> >> Anyway, if you are to come close to happiness, just keep in mind >> that you know what his behavior is, and you know what makes him >> happy, and that you've made your decision in light of these >> things, and yet, it's YOUR decision. Therefore, you cannot >> validly feel victimized by your DH if he continues to behave as >> he has, even if, in order for you to take him back, he promised >> you otherwise. Don't forget, part of who he is, as you've seen >> it, is a liar. > > I appreciate your posts AllYou!, however they are intended; and > i think they are intended to help me. I'm glad to know that you know this, because it is true.
From: EB on 8 Aug 2008 07:58 On Aug 8, 2:40 am, "Vickie" <vkraj...(a)yahoo.com> wrote: > "Bill in Co" <surly_curmudg...(a)earthlink.net> wrote in messagenews:UbednYFmtd92PwbVnZ2dnUVZ_qfinZ2d(a)earthlink.com... > > > > > > > Vickie wrote: > >> "Erin" <squig...(a)sympatico.ca> wrote in message > >>news:5783c395-ed6f-4c70-9109-42a366d9b4d8(a)m73g2000hsh.googlegroups.com.... > > >>>> I wanna hear the Sirens. Just tie me to the mast. > > >>> Well you better hurry with the Swan song because > >>> neither the Wife nor the Dog may be there waiting > >>> for you on your return. > > >> I didn't think there was a return from the Sirens. > >> Rock-a-bye-baby......your dead. > >> Did I get it wrong? > > > We're clearly not on the same page here. :-) > > My Sirens predate yours, by about 2000 years. Check out the Greeks, and > > get back to me. I'll leave the light on for ya. :-) > > Nah, dont want to check it out. > I thought they were 3 bird/women who lured sailors in, lulled them to sleep > with body and song, and then, Kablooey!, killed 'em. > > What is your version? > > wheeeww. <I blew the candle out> > > Vickie- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text - Vickie, I think you are thinking about the Harpies that plauged King Phineas. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harpies EB (Greek Mythology major)
From: AllYou! on 8 Aug 2008 08:12
In news:47f6b6e3-8427-4f78-87d1-b20b32c6b4b3(a)j22g2000hsf.googlegroups.com, Erin <squiggle(a)sympatico.ca> mused: > Tai wrote: >> Erin wrote: >>> DH and I have reached an agreement. >>> He wants me to take him back and I >>> agreed. One false move and......... >>> Just kidding. He was exceedingly >>> sweet to me today and he is trying so >>> hard. How could I resist? >> >> So is he moving back in before or after Siren comes to visit? > > There is no Siren; there may be a soulmate, > but i have been guided to understand that all > that mean is she is a very good friend. Now, > either i accept that or i don't. No amount of > therapy is going to change anything as the cards > are now on the table. I accept. If I am wrong, > it will show up in the future. I am --sometimes-- wrong, > you know. :-) "Now, either i accept that or i don't." "I accept." IMHO, this represents a huge improvement over what I perceive to be your previous outlook about very many things. I also believe that you also need to accept the fact that you are taking a huge risk that this may not be the case (i.e., that she's just a friend), and that it is YOUR risk, but that's a slightly different matter. I like your approach to this matter, even though it's not the one I would take. See? I'm not trying to convince you to do what I would do. :-) |