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From: Natalie on 14 Nov 2007 10:05

Hello Everyone, Most of you know that I lost my oldest daughter Carrie
on 10-2-2005. She was 27 years old.

Well, I guess losing a child isnt enough pain to my heart. I just got
a phone call from Carrie's dad telling me the angel light that stood
no more then a foot high that we bought for her was removed. A small 2
in. angel as well that ahd been there since the first Christmas that
she passed was removed. And a small flat stone that my sister bought
and put there was removed.
I am outraged, and horrified by this. There should be some exceptions
expecially if you are out there all the time maintaining the grave
where your child is. OR for that matters any of our loved ones are.

Please help me to change this. here is a link to the petition to do
so.

http://www.PetitionOnline.com/81778/petition.html
Please sign it and pass it o to everyone you know. Dont let this
happen to you.

Love and Light
Natalie Smith-Blakeslee
Carrie Ann Smith's Mom
8-17-78 10-2-2005

From: daisy on 14 Nov 2007 22:47

Natalie wrote:
> Hello Everyone, Most of you know that I lost my oldest daughter Carrie
> on 10-2-2005. She was 27 years old.
>
> Well, I guess losing a child isnt enough pain to my heart. I just got
> a phone call from Carrie's dad telling me the angel light that stood
> no more then a foot high that we bought for her was removed. A small 2
> in. angel as well that ahd been there since the first Christmas that
> she passed was removed. And a small flat stone that my sister bought
> and put there was removed.
> I am outraged, and horrified by this. There should be some exceptions
> expecially if you are out there all the time maintaining the grave
> where your child is. OR for that matters any of our loved ones are.
>
> Please help me to change this. here is a link to the petition to do
> so.
>
> http://www.PetitionOnline.com/81778/petition.html
> Please sign it and pass it o to everyone you know. Dont let this
> happen to you.
>
> Love and Light
> Natalie Smith-Blakeslee
> Carrie Ann Smith's Mom
> 8-17-78 10-2-2005
>
This happened to me at my sons grave numerous times and it did hurt so I
know what you are experiencing. Karma, what goes around comes around,
taking items from someones grave no matter what the reason is VERY BAD
KARMA! Good Luck to you, I signed your petition.

Daisy

From: Lynn - Josh's Mom on 14 Nov 2007 14:12

From: Crystal's mom on 15 Nov 2007 07:43

On Nov 14, 9:05 am, Natalie <nataliemed...(a)adelphia.net> wrote:
> Hello Everyone, Most of you know that I lost my oldest daughter Carrie
> on 10-2-2005. She was 27 years old.
>
> Well, I guess losing a child isnt enough pain to my heart. I just got
> a phone call from Carrie's dad telling me the angel light that stood
> no more then a foot high that we bought for her was removed. A small 2
> in. angel as well that ahd been there since the first Christmas that
> she passed was removed. And a small flat stone that my sister bought
> and put there was removed.
> I am outraged, and horrified by this. There should be some exceptions
> expecially if you are out there all the time maintaining the grave
> where your child is. OR for that matters any of our loved ones are.
>
> Please help me to change this. here is a link to the petition to do
> so.
>
> http://www.PetitionOnline.com/81778/petition.html
> Please sign it and pass it o to everyone you know. Dont let this
> happen to you.
>
> Love and Light
> Natalie Smith-Blakeslee
> Carrie Ann Smith's Mom
> 8-17-78 10-2-2005

Natalie,
Boy do I know this anger! We decorated Crystal and Sam's graves every
year with a little tree and homemade ornaments ...itsy bitsy stockings
with their names and the baby's name; surrounded the plots with
greenery,,,,a little sleigh full of little pine cones and tidbits.
Each year, I would then go when we had to and pick it all up. Last
year, when we went to bring it all home....it was gone! Even the
little flat rock that had lain in front with a beautiful saying about
love. We do the mowing, trimming, pulling of weeds...all. The
cemetary person said they did not remove it. Someone who didn't care
whom he might hurt stole what little I could do for them for the
holiday. They arrested a woman who was caught stealing flowers, but
she didn;t have our items. Our cemetary has a large sign at the
entrance about it being against the law to remove anything except from
your own and it hasn't stopped the theft. Some of our police force
took turns being out there in the winter....they had friends on the
force....and yet, all gone. Makes me afraid to do any this year.
Amanda....Crystal's mom 9-22-78 to 11-30-2002

From: Miss-n-Cody on 15 Nov 2007 11:04

On Nov 15, 6:43 am, "Crystal's mom" <faman...(a)sbcglobal.net> wrote:
> On Nov 14, 9:05 am, Natalie <nataliemed...(a)adelphia.net> wrote:
>
>
>
>
>
> > Hello Everyone, Most of you know that I lost my oldest daughter Carrie
> > on 10-2-2005. She was 27 years old.
>
> > Well, I guess losing a child isnt enough pain to my heart. I just got
> > a phone call from Carrie's dad telling me the angel light that stood
> > no more then a foot high that we bought for her was removed. A small 2
> > in. angel as well that ahd been there since the first Christmas that
> > she passed was removed. And a small flat stone that my sister bought
> > and put there was removed.
> > I am outraged, and horrified by this. There should be some exceptions
> > expecially if you are out there all the time maintaining the grave
> > where your child is. OR for that matters any of our loved ones are.
>
> > Please help me to change this. here is a link to the petition to do
> > so.
>
> >http://www.PetitionOnline.com/81778/petition.html
> > Please sign it and pass it o to everyone you know. Dont let this
> > happen to you.
>
> > Love and Light
> > Natalie Smith-Blakeslee
> > Carrie Ann Smith's Mom
> > 8-17-78 10-2-2005
>
> Natalie,
> Boy do I know this anger! We decorated Crystal and Sam's graves every
> year with a little tree and homemade ornaments ...itsy bitsy stockings
> with their names and the baby's name; surrounded the plots with
> greenery,,,,a little sleigh full of little pine cones and tidbits.
> Each year, I would then go when we had to and pick it all up. Last
> year, when we went to bring it all home....it was gone! Even the
> little flat rock that had lain in front with a beautiful saying about
> love. We do the mowing, trimming, pulling of weeds...all. The
> cemetary person said they did not remove it. Someone who didn't care
> whom he might hurt stole what little I could do for them for the
> holiday. They arrested a woman who was caught stealing flowers, but
> she didn;t have our items. Our cemetary has a large sign at the
> entrance about it being against the law to remove anything except from
> your own and it hasn't stopped the theft. Some of our police force
> took turns being out there in the winter....they had friends on the
> force....and yet, all gone. Makes me afraid to do any this year.
> Amanda....Crystal's mom 9-22-78 to 11-30-2002- Hide quoted text -
>
> - Show quoted text -

There's a special place in hell or whatever place there is hereafter
for anyone who would steal from a grave. Amanda, I'm so sorry this
happened to you. I know how much it hurts. I signed and forwarded the
petition also.
Sandi ~ Cody's mom forever

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