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From: "Claude" <claude@annoyed with on 22 Oct 2005 13:52 I know some of you guys have been through this, but it was a first for me. My uro has moved to Chicago, and when I went in for my six month check (RP on 5/1/02), last Wednesday, the Nurse Practitioner did the exam. I knew a woman would be doing the exam, and I was a bit apprehensive. Her name is Jacqueline ___, and a very good looking young woman. She came in and introduced herself as "Jackie" (Why would I have preferred her to introduce herself as "Jacqueline+last name") Well, I told myself that I have been exposed to the world in the hospital and poked and probed by female nurses. Just regard this as the same. The digital went fine---I didnt have to look at her. Actually, it was easier because she has small fingers. But then I had to sit on the table while she checked out my equipment. I have two spermatocoels (Do any of you have those?) That was when I noticed one of the office nurses was also in, watching. My wife tells me that it's SOP when the male doc does a pelvic to have his female nurse in with him. Certainly understandable. But the witness bothered me more than the NP. As she was manipulating my testicles, I looked over her shoulder and kept telling myself that she's just doing her job. But it was the other nurse watching her manipulate my testicles that bothered me.
From: Ron B on 22 Oct 2005 15:45 Claude, as a 'scared guy' who goes to Northwestern Memorial Hospital in Chicago...I have never cared WHO does the exam, male or female. My dad, who was backwards in many ways, told me when I was about 10 years old...not to be bothered if a woman doctor or nurse did any type of exam...and over 45 years later...I am impressed by his wisdom. A woman nurse removed my cath after my RRP and I could have cared less. Honest to God Claude, it just dosen't matter. They're doing a job and their job is to help US. I hope this helps. Ron B. Chicago
From: Alan Meyer on 22 Oct 2005 17:23 "Ron B" <Gimel(a)webtv.net> wrote in message news:10177-435A96C3-487(a)storefull-3315.bay.webtv.net... > Honest to God Claude, it just dosen't matter. They're doing a job and > their job is to help US. I feel the same way. Some women living in those countries where they have to wear veils probably feel the same way about exposing their faces as we might about exposing our "private parts". In other places, nudity is common and nobody thinks twice about it. It's all just cultural baggage. I'm just as happy to leave that baggage behind. Alan
From: Steve Kramer on 22 Oct 2005 19:36 It would have bothered me when I could show some response. -- PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46 Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c RRP 12/15/2000 G7 (3+4), T3cN0M0 Neg margins PSA .1 .1 .1 .27 .37 .75 EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47 PSA .34 .22 .15 .21 .32 Lupron 07/03 (1 mo) 8/03 (4 mo), 12/03, 4/04, 09/04, 01/05 PSA .07 .05 .06 .05 non Illegitimi carborundum "Claude" <claude(a)annoyed with spam.com> wrote in message news:J%u6f.99351$7b6.36965(a)twister.nyroc.rr.com... > I know some of you guys have been through this, but it was a first for > me. My uro has moved to Chicago, and when I went in for my six month check > (RP on 5/1/02), last Wednesday, the Nurse Practitioner did the exam. I knew > a woman would be doing the exam, and I was a bit apprehensive. Her name is > Jacqueline ___, and a very good looking young woman. She came in and > introduced herself as "Jackie" (Why would I have preferred her to introduce > herself as "Jacqueline+last name") Well, I told myself that I have been > exposed to the world in the hospital and poked and probed by female nurses. > Just regard this as the same. The digital went fine---I didnt have to look > at her. Actually, it was easier because she has small fingers. But then I > had to sit on the table while she checked out my equipment. I have two > spermatocoels (Do any of you have those?) That was when I noticed one of the > office nurses was also in, watching. My wife tells me that it's SOP when > the male doc does a pelvic to have his female nurse in with him. Certainly > understandable. But the witness bothered me more than the NP. As she was > manipulating my testicles, I looked over her shoulder and kept telling > myself that she's just doing her job. But it was the other nurse watching > her manipulate my testicles that bothered me. > >
From: DonC on 22 Oct 2005 21:20
"Steve Kramer" <skramer(a)cinci.rr.com> wrote in message news:J1A6f.147599$lI5.93775(a)tornado.ohiordc.rr.com... > It would have bothered me when I could show some response. Ah...... to have such a problem again : ) > > -- > PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46 > Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c > RRP 12/15/2000 G7 (3+4), T3cN0M0 Neg margins > PSA .1 .1 .1 .27 .37 .75 > EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47 > PSA .34 .22 .15 .21 .32 > Lupron 07/03 (1 mo) 8/03 (4 mo), 12/03, 4/04, 09/04, 01/05 > PSA .07 .05 .06 .05 > non Illegitimi carborundum > > > "Claude" <claude(a)annoyed with spam.com> wrote in message > news:J%u6f.99351$7b6.36965(a)twister.nyroc.rr.com... >> I know some of you guys have been through this, but it was a first >> for >> me. My uro has moved to Chicago, and when I went in for my six month > check >> (RP on 5/1/02), last Wednesday, the Nurse Practitioner did the exam. I > knew >> a woman would be doing the exam, and I was a bit apprehensive. Her name >> is >> Jacqueline ___, and a very good looking young woman. She came in and >> introduced herself as "Jackie" (Why would I have preferred her to > introduce >> herself as "Jacqueline+last name") Well, I told myself that I have been >> exposed to the world in the hospital and poked and probed by female > nurses. >> Just regard this as the same. The digital went fine---I didnt have to > look >> at her. Actually, it was easier because she has small fingers. But then >> I >> had to sit on the table while she checked out my equipment. I have two >> spermatocoels (Do any of you have those?) That was when I noticed one of > the >> office nurses was also in, watching. My wife tells me that it's SOP when >> the male doc does a pelvic to have his female nurse in with him. > Certainly >> understandable. But the witness bothered me more than the NP. As she was >> manipulating my testicles, I looked over her shoulder and kept telling >> myself that she's just doing her job. But it was the other nurse >> watching >> her manipulate my testicles that bothered me. >> >> > > |