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From: "Claude" <claude@annoyed with on
I know some of you guys have been through this, but it was a first for
me. My uro has moved to Chicago, and when I went in for my six month check
(RP on 5/1/02), last Wednesday, the Nurse Practitioner did the exam. I knew
a woman would be doing the exam, and I was a bit apprehensive. Her name is
Jacqueline ___, and a very good looking young woman. She came in and
introduced herself as "Jackie" (Why would I have preferred her to introduce
herself as "Jacqueline+last name") Well, I told myself that I have been
exposed to the world in the hospital and poked and probed by female nurses.
Just regard this as the same. The digital went fine---I didnt have to look
at her. Actually, it was easier because she has small fingers. But then I
had to sit on the table while she checked out my equipment. I have two
spermatocoels (Do any of you have those?) That was when I noticed one of the
office nurses was also in, watching. My wife tells me that it's SOP when
the male doc does a pelvic to have his female nurse in with him. Certainly
understandable. But the witness bothered me more than the NP. As she was
manipulating my testicles, I looked over her shoulder and kept telling
myself that she's just doing her job. But it was the other nurse watching
her manipulate my testicles that bothered me.


From: Ron B on
Claude, as a 'scared guy' who goes to Northwestern Memorial Hospital in
Chicago...I have never cared WHO does the exam, male or female.

My dad, who was backwards in many ways, told me when I was about 10
years old...not to be bothered if a woman doctor or nurse did any type
of exam...and over 45 years later...I am impressed by his wisdom.

A woman nurse removed my cath after my RRP and I could have cared less.

Honest to God Claude, it just dosen't matter. They're doing a job and
their job is to help US.

I hope this helps.

Ron B.

Chicago

From: Alan Meyer on
"Ron B" <Gimel(a)webtv.net> wrote in message
news:10177-435A96C3-487(a)storefull-3315.bay.webtv.net...

> Honest to God Claude, it just dosen't matter. They're doing a job and
> their job is to help US.

I feel the same way.

Some women living in those countries where they have to wear veils
probably feel the same way about exposing their faces as we might
about exposing our "private parts". In other places, nudity is common
and nobody thinks twice about it.

It's all just cultural baggage. I'm just as happy to leave that baggage
behind.

Alan


From: Steve Kramer on
It would have bothered me when I could show some response.

--
PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46
Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c
RRP 12/15/2000 G7 (3+4), T3cN0M0 Neg margins
PSA .1 .1 .1 .27 .37 .75
EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47
PSA .34 .22 .15 .21 .32
Lupron 07/03 (1 mo) 8/03 (4 mo), 12/03, 4/04, 09/04, 01/05
PSA .07 .05 .06 .05
non Illegitimi carborundum


"Claude" <claude(a)annoyed with spam.com> wrote in message
news:J%u6f.99351$7b6.36965(a)twister.nyroc.rr.com...
> I know some of you guys have been through this, but it was a first for
> me. My uro has moved to Chicago, and when I went in for my six month
check
> (RP on 5/1/02), last Wednesday, the Nurse Practitioner did the exam. I
knew
> a woman would be doing the exam, and I was a bit apprehensive. Her name is
> Jacqueline ___, and a very good looking young woman. She came in and
> introduced herself as "Jackie" (Why would I have preferred her to
introduce
> herself as "Jacqueline+last name") Well, I told myself that I have been
> exposed to the world in the hospital and poked and probed by female
nurses.
> Just regard this as the same. The digital went fine---I didnt have to
look
> at her. Actually, it was easier because she has small fingers. But then I
> had to sit on the table while she checked out my equipment. I have two
> spermatocoels (Do any of you have those?) That was when I noticed one of
the
> office nurses was also in, watching. My wife tells me that it's SOP when
> the male doc does a pelvic to have his female nurse in with him.
Certainly
> understandable. But the witness bothered me more than the NP. As she was
> manipulating my testicles, I looked over her shoulder and kept telling
> myself that she's just doing her job. But it was the other nurse watching
> her manipulate my testicles that bothered me.
>
>


From: DonC on

"Steve Kramer" <skramer(a)cinci.rr.com> wrote in message
news:J1A6f.147599$lI5.93775(a)tornado.ohiordc.rr.com...
> It would have bothered me when I could show some response.

Ah...... to have such a problem again : )


>
> --
> PSA 16 10/17/2000 @ 46
> Biopsy 11/01/2000 G7 (3+4), T2c
> RRP 12/15/2000 G7 (3+4), T3cN0M0 Neg margins
> PSA .1 .1 .1 .27 .37 .75
> EBRT 05-07/2002 @ 47
> PSA .34 .22 .15 .21 .32
> Lupron 07/03 (1 mo) 8/03 (4 mo), 12/03, 4/04, 09/04, 01/05
> PSA .07 .05 .06 .05
> non Illegitimi carborundum
>
>
> "Claude" <claude(a)annoyed with spam.com> wrote in message
> news:J%u6f.99351$7b6.36965(a)twister.nyroc.rr.com...
>> I know some of you guys have been through this, but it was a first
>> for
>> me. My uro has moved to Chicago, and when I went in for my six month
> check
>> (RP on 5/1/02), last Wednesday, the Nurse Practitioner did the exam. I
> knew
>> a woman would be doing the exam, and I was a bit apprehensive. Her name
>> is
>> Jacqueline ___, and a very good looking young woman. She came in and
>> introduced herself as "Jackie" (Why would I have preferred her to
> introduce
>> herself as "Jacqueline+last name") Well, I told myself that I have been
>> exposed to the world in the hospital and poked and probed by female
> nurses.
>> Just regard this as the same. The digital went fine---I didnt have to
> look
>> at her. Actually, it was easier because she has small fingers. But then
>> I
>> had to sit on the table while she checked out my equipment. I have two
>> spermatocoels (Do any of you have those?) That was when I noticed one of
> the
>> office nurses was also in, watching. My wife tells me that it's SOP when
>> the male doc does a pelvic to have his female nurse in with him.
> Certainly
>> understandable. But the witness bothered me more than the NP. As she was
>> manipulating my testicles, I looked over her shoulder and kept telling
>> myself that she's just doing her job. But it was the other nurse
>> watching
>> her manipulate my testicles that bothered me.
>>
>>
>
>


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