Marriage

broken
Well i have lived with my husband for 13 years and 3 beautiful children. For 5 year or more, maybe, my husband has secretly chatted online with other women. He has talked to them on the phone. Sent erotic poetry to them. Everytime, i just find things on the computer that tell me he is doing this when im not awake... 20 May 2006 02:49

How to leave
Hi, my name is Brandy. I have known my husband for about 9 years, but we have only been married for one year. We have five children, only three of them are ours together though. My problem is that about a year and a half before we got married, my husband cheated on me, I was 8 months pregnant with my third, (our ... 18 May 2006 01:24

Please Help Me
After 15 years of marriage, my husband has told me he wants out. We have three children 12,10, and 2. We also just moved out of a really bad home for a new home, going from a $500.00 mortgage to $1100.00 and he has now left me. The mortgage is in my name alone as with all the bills, even though he makes a tiny bit ... 27 Apr 2006 16:43

Define marriage
Not legally. What does it mean to you? I am of the view that no one knows what it is until they try it, and it will inevitably turn out not to be easily understood. I further predict that in nearly all cases, despite whatever means is taken to prevent it, the parties to the marriage will not share entirely th... 26 Apr 2006 21:55

Traveling spouses
My soon to be wife is fixing to have to travel for 2months (on and off ) for her job, i did not want her to go and let her know that... but i must support her choice even though its gonna suck. how do you guys deal with this? When do you say enough is enough? Cause this job may require her to travel more.. o... 27 Apr 2006 01:01

Help! - When do you just give up?
I'm new here, although I've lurked occasionally over the last few years. I'm feeling so desperate about my marriage at this point that I thought it couldn't hurt to post here and hopefully get some feedback. DH and I have been arguing over the same issue(s) for about a year now. In some ways we are just so diffe... 24 Apr 2006 07:40

constuctive advice, please help
Dear all, I got married in June of 2005. My wife is a Japanese and my family is of chinese descent, but they have moved to Singapore as little kids. Myself am born and raised in Singapore. We stayed with our parents when we moved back from the US last June, and moved out in November. While we were staying with... 6 Apr 2006 02:51

Boundaries
Its time to clarify what people mean by boundaries. To me a boundary 1. is not a threat 2. is a consequence that takes place when a line is crossed 3. can be put in place by words 4. is most effective when put in place by actions 5. in effect means you don't tolerate or put up with whatever it is you don't ... 7 Apr 2006 14:16

liars
my husband is a compulsive liar... I have tried to stay and work things out but they lies keep coming.. and all he can do is whine because I don't trust him and he says he has earned my trust... hmm what do you think.. here is the latest situation.. I was watching Oprah the other day and it was about finance... 30 Mar 2006 23:40

I hate my wife.
I hate my wife. I hate my kids. I'm having an affair with a student and this morning I've started to be haunted by Chris Morris of Brasseye fame. Please, someone tell me all this is worth it. __________________________________ Timothy Chandler http://blog.myspace.com/timothychandler The life of a depressed man.... 29 Mar 2006 10:33