From: lmont on
My wife has the marital home until our divorce is finalized...the judge
ordered her to pay the notes..I don't want the mortgage from the first
home to interfere with my chances of getting a second place to live...I
don't have an attorney(can't afford)...can anyone give me advice on how
to cut financial ties?

From: Longshot on
you can quit claim the deed but that doesnt remove your financial
responsibility from the debt. the only way is for the wife to refinance the
house.

<lmont(a)webtv.net> wrote in message
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> My wife has the marital home until our divorce is finalized...the judge
> ordered her to pay the notes..I don't want the mortgage from the first
> home to interfere with my chances of getting a second place to live...I
> don't have an attorney(can't afford)...can anyone give me advice on how
> to cut financial ties?
>


From: rj on
On Sat, 29 Oct 2005 02:27:45 GMT, "Longshot" <longshot(a)sol.com> wrote:

>you can quit claim the deed but that doesnt remove your financial
>responsibility from the debt. the only way is for the wife to refinance the
>house.

True enough. But there's one problem: What happens if either the
wife is not willing to do this, or if the wife (on her own) doesn't
have the financial resources to persuade a mortgage company to lend
her, alone, all that money...

Happens all the time, and it can be a real headache.

rj


From: longshot on

"rj" <rjklutz(a)hotmail.com> wrote in message
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> On Sat, 29 Oct 2005 02:27:45 GMT, "Longshot" <longshot(a)sol.com> wrote:
>
>>you can quit claim the deed but that doesnt remove your financial
>>responsibility from the debt. the only way is for the wife to refinance
>>the
>>house.
>
> True enough. But there's one problem: What happens if either the
> wife is not willing to do this, or if the wife (on her own) doesn't
> have the financial resources to persuade a mortgage company to lend
> her, alone, all that money...
>
> Happens all the time, and it can be a real headache.
>
> rj

FWIW : my lawyer tells me if the STBX ever makes a payment late she is in
contempt of court for causing me harm (in ruining my credit).


From: Rog' on
"longshot" <longshot(a)aol.com> wrote:
> FWIW : my lawyer tells me if the STBX ever makes a
> payment late she is in contempt of court...

FWIW, a lot of good that'll do you after your credit's ruined.
BTW, in my state, payments on a debt are not subject to the
court's contempt powers. Even where they are, if she shows
that there were circumstances beyond her control (such as an
illness, loss of job, emergency, etc.) then her contempt will
be found "not-willful" and nothing will happen.

If a person is going to rely on an ex-spouse to make payments
on a mortgage on which they are liable, they need not only to
have a psych-eval, but also a life insurance policy on the payer
and a lien on the property for which the payment is to be made.
=R=