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From: josh.weaver68 on 18 Dec 2007 13:56 Hello, I was hoping that some people out there could help me. I'm currently on a course of CBT to help me with a fear of blushing I have had since I was young. I'm on my third session and the therapist has suggested I do a survey on blushing. I'm going to ask some close family and friends to fill in the survey but I also wanted some people that I don't know to fill it in - I'm not brave enough to walk up to people on the street so thought I'd try this group. I'll post the results up afterwards for all to see. Survey is below. Thanks for your help JW 1. Are you male or female? 2. Is there any difference between a man blushing and a woman blushing? (Y/N) Please specify: 3. Do you think people look stupid if they blush? 0 - I don't notice to be honest | | 5 - It depends on what the person was doing at the time | | 10 - Daft as a brush! 4. Do you think blushing is a sign of a less confident/less assertive person? (a) Confidence 0 - I don't notice to be honest | | 5 - It can at times, but it depends on how the person reacts after blushing (e.g. no attempts | to disguise it) | 10 - I wouldn't trust them with my dog (b) Assertive 0 - I don't notice to be honest | | 5 - It doesn't change my opinion on their assertiveness, as it depends on the situation | | 10 - I could undermine them given half a chance 5. Do you think blushing makes a person look weak? 0 - Strong as an Ox | | 5 - It doesn't change my opinion of them | | 10 - They couldn't punch their way out of a paper bag 6. What do you think when you see someone going red? 0 - I don't notice to be honest | | 5 - It depends on what the person was doing at the time | | 10 - Weak/Other Please state other: 7. When was the last time you blushed? (Please select one) - I don't blush - Yesterday - A week ago - 1 month ago - More than a month ago - More than a year ago 8. What did it feel like? 0 - Mild sensation | | 5 - Felt moderately hot and sweaty | | 10 - Hot as an oven and red as a beetroot! 9. How did you think others saw you? 0 - They didn't notice | | 5 - Some noticed and some didn't | | 10 - Everyone stared and discussed it 10. Do you have any evidence for how others saw you? 0 - Non whatsoever | | 5 - Some pointed it out but only 1 or 2 close friends/colleagues | | 10 - Everyone in the room/vicinity told me/laughed/pointed it out Many thanks for your time |